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Imagine you are a woman on an online dating site, and in 2 days, you have to sort through 123 messages from guys. OR would you instead try to sort through the ones you already have?

This isn’t even accounting for the fact that most women like to feel pursued rather than to do the pursuing themselves. It doesn’t mean that women are incapable of pursuing men, it’s just much less likely.

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Here's to giving you that extra nudge: If you're feeling adventurous, would you be up for trying a new Thai place this week for dinner?

My friend Meghan just recommended a place in Hell's Kitchen called Vi V (

Yes, I am serious, though I can't figure out in what context that would work in the first place.

So you’ve set up the perfect online dating profile with your best profile pic. While there’s plenty of fish in the sea, you want to catch one.

Put yourself in your reader’s shoes before writing the message.

Imagine what other messages they're currently receiving, and how they will perceive yours. This message may be your one and only opportunity to make a good impression, so it's not worth beating around the bush.

I’m active across over 75 dating sites and apps, and I've used hundreds more.

I meet about ~60% of my new friends and ~90% of my new romantic partners via online dating sites. The people you want to date are real people, so treat them that way.

Fortunately, the other thing we found out without online dating testing was that it wasn’t too hard to stand out from the crown in your first messages.

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