Enfj dating enfj
i'm with my infp bf for 1.5 years and we've gotten communication down to a T and it literally makes everything else a lot easier.
No guessing games I'm an INFP who's been with my ENFJ partner for 6 years (married for 3.) It's such a cliche but in any relationship, regardless of type, you have to be honest and communicate when something is bothering you.
Also sometimes I feel as though I don't know how to understand him in his INFP state. The problem is that both types avoid confrontation and hides a lot of emotions because they can feel very petty, but you need to learn that voicing the petty things will allow you to voice the much harder things.
As an infp I can say that someone being honest with me, no matter how much it hurts means the world to me.
I know this is making me sound frustrating, but what really makes me feel comfortable enough to open up is when he is giving me his full attention, and seems patient and open to listening.
Maybe just sitting on the couch, maybe eating dinner together, but allow him time to talk- its usually during those long pauses I will finally open up.
Also, when he does show you affection, compliment you, etc., let him know how much it means to you.